Y’all ever just need a moment with God. Like a REAL moment when you get angry and whiney? When your questions turn into accusations? The now whats take on a derogatory tone? When our kids look at us like we should be in Time Out…
That was me last night. It happens when I think things are going so well and I’m taking steps in the right direction, but then someone says something or the opportunity that I’m chasing just poofs into thin air.
I can’t stand these moments. Because then I start to doubt. And sermons from the night before about doubt are all the sudden slapping me in the face. Super Punch Out style.
You have to understand something about my life. This is my life. Let me give you two examples. I was a substitute teacher for seven years. Absolutely loved my job, but do you know how many times I applied for a full time position? A lot. I am a writer. Absolutely passionate about this gig, but do you know how many manuscripts I’ve submitted to agents? A lot. I am so used to closed doors. Can anybody else relate?
It sucks. Because then we start to take things personally. Like if an agent doesn’t think my manuscript is right for his list, it means I’m a bad writer. If I don’t say the right things in an interview, it means I’m not qualified. At the snap of a finger, a blink of an eye, we believe that we aren’t good enough. That I’m not doing anything right. And the lies just keep getting bigger and wider.
Why is that? John 10:10a, “The thief comes to steal, kill and destroy.” Now more than ever, the devil is determined to steal our in between moments. He’s lurking in that very second when we can either give up or trust God to carry us through. When setbacks come, he craftily tries to convince us that we are the failure. He twists our thoughts from I’m okay to I will never recover.
This is the exact reason I came up with this slogan for You Are On Time: “The moment your ending becomes God’s beginning.” The truth is, there are many moments when something ends. It doesn’t have to be when we’re at rock bottom and we’re crying out for God to save us. It doesn’t have to be when we get that life-threatening diagnosis and we’re on our knees begging for God to take over. While those moments are just as meaningful and just as desperate for God to enter in, I want to tell you that moments of doubt and uncertainty and the now whats are also moments worthy of God’s help.
Whenever I feel defeated, I go for a walk. And I think about uneven sidewalks. How my feet stumble on a rock or a tear in the concrete. I think about unleveled streets. Like, I’m walking on a straight path, but that path comes with roundabouts and curves and hills and valleys. I wonder why the gnats would rather live in my mouth than fly above my head with their friends. I think about how my physical walks are representative of my metaphoric life.
And then.
I think about how this Jesus, blood-soaked and barely alive, walked this same path. Crooked and bumpy, weighted down and offended, He kept moving toward the cross. At any point, He could have ended it all. He could have given up. But He didn’t. He obeyed and trusted His Father’s will, even to His death, because He knew that God’s beginning was much much greater than His end.
Friends, I don’t know which sidewalk you are on today. Maybe it’s mine and we passed each other last night, but here’s what I’m choosing to do today. In my moment of now what I’m choosing God’s beginning. I’m choosing that in my moments of doubt and uncertainty to believe in a God who is bigger than my circumstances. In a God who has the power to change hearts. In a God who knows these sidewalks very well and that I can trust Him with every step.
When opposition comes, anchor your heart and your mind in His promises. They are trustworthy and they are true. Surround yourself with people who support you. Who randomly message you with encouraging Scripture. Stay the course. If God has laid something on your heart, it’s because you’ve been chosen to accomplish that task. Keep following His heart; He is there to guide you, even if you stumble upon a rock. He is there to carry you through.
Father, forgive me for doubting your plans for my life. May I never forget how faithful you have been to me. May I always trust that your plans are good and perfect and right.
And can I please get out of time out?